Young voices making waves

“Women who get c-sections are pussies.”

This mind-blowingly ignorant pronouncement was made by a Calgary high school teacher to his biology students. Not last century, but this year.

Does thinking about a room full of impressionable young people hearing this claim made by an authority figure in the tax-payer funded education system enrage you? (Three days later, I’m still fuming.)

But what gives me hope is that it was one of the first stories shared at the Making Waves workshop Informed Opinions convenes every year in collaboration with Hanita Simard.

Hanita mobilizes a network of women and teens keen to spend their privilege by working for change – on everything from climate action and women’s equality to mental health and LGBTQ+ rights. We invest a day together talking about how to make waves and why it matters that their voices are heard.

When I paused my presentation 20 minutes in to invite the 60 teens and women present to reflect on if or when they’d either silenced themselves or been silenced by others, a grade 12 student spoke up to share her experience.

She said that when her biology teacher verbally demonstrated how unfit he was to deliver scientific insights, she was too stunned to object. But by sharing the story with the rest of us, she galvanized the room.

Later that day, after we’d already talked about the value of being strategic about your audience, articulating a clear, out-come-focused purpose and making an explicit solution-focused call-to-action, we drafted a letter to the principal.

Maria Spronk-Johnson, a lawyer currently on mat leave, facilitated a live demo using ChatGPT to show how easy the technology made it to incorporate data about how often c-sections are medically-necessary.

Maria did so with her infant daughter, Rose, strapped to her chest, a visible reminder of how profoundly different women’s realities so often are and why it’s critically necessary for our voices to be equitably integrated into every decision-making — and educational — arena.

Calgary Foundation and Bennett Jones sponsored Saturday’s event in the law firm’s beautiful Calgary offices. We all left high on one another’s energy, insights and commitment.

To learn more about Making Waves, visit https://lnkd.in/gBxMgvvZ

And if you’d like to collaborate with Informed Opinions on convening or sponsoring a similar event for young women in your community, please contact samantha@informedopinions.org

 

 

What we can learn from Jacinda Ardern

Chutzpah and humility are a rare but precious combination.

It takes the first to run for Prime Minister at 37.

It takes the second to have the self-awareness to bow out after six years — despite earning international accolades for leading through a pandemic, mass murder and volcanic eruption — because you’ve candidly assessed your capacity and believe that someone else on your team will be better equipped to lead your party to victory in the next election.

Much will be written about Jacinda Ardern’s leadership. The BBC article linked below quotes the Australian PM as appreciating her “intellect, strength and empathy”, and New Zealand’s opposition leader as recognizing that she gave “her all to this incredibly demanding job”.

But what I think resonated with many people, both in NZ and around the world, was that she manifested unparalleled authenticity and grace.

She was both unapologetically in charge and deeply human. She demonstrated strength in vulnerability.

She brought to the role many of the qualities that have been historically denigrated by patriarchal values, and made clear how valuable they are.

In the process, she reinforced the critical importance of more gender-balanced governing.

When asked what she hoped her legacy would be, she did not cite the accomplishments that earned her global attention, but said,

“I hope I leave New Zealanders with a belief that you can be kind, but strong, empathetic, decisive, optimistic but focused. And that you can be your own kind of leader – one who knows when it’s time to go.”

Making decisions on a daily basis that have massive implications for the lives of the citizens you serve is enormously difficult.

And being able to acknowledge your limitations, not just privately, but publicly? That’s genuine #leadership.

Politics shouldn’t be a life sentence.

We would all benefit from more leaders able to do what Jacinda Ardern has done.

#BalanceofPower